Yesterday, after doing my post I went around visiting the folks who had left comments on my blog....my goodness that can be very time consuming. Fun and interesting but time consuming...everyone has all kinds of things going on in their lives...I get all wrapped up in their post and then read another...and before you know it...I had been blogging for 3 hrs...yes 3 hrs! And that was post night shift....oh my. I think I need help.
I always learn something while I am travelling the blog world....I was over at Janet C. place and she was talking about how she had taken a course on gardening at 8000 ft....and what she and her hubby do in order to conserve energy. Where Janet lives is very beautiful and picturesque. She is also a very good photographer and with her camera in hand she shares a little of her paradise with us. She has this picture of the moon which is just breath taking...if you get a chance go say hi.
Then I was over at crashdummie's place, and she was talking about "Life for Rent". About how she met up with an old buddy and how theirs lives have gone, and would she chose a different path if given the choice. This really got me thinking and my response to her was about goal setting.
I always learn something while I am travelling the blog world....I was over at Janet C. place and she was talking about how she had taken a course on gardening at 8000 ft....and what she and her hubby do in order to conserve energy. Where Janet lives is very beautiful and picturesque. She is also a very good photographer and with her camera in hand she shares a little of her paradise with us. She has this picture of the moon which is just breath taking...if you get a chance go say hi.
Then I was over at crashdummie's place, and she was talking about "Life for Rent". About how she met up with an old buddy and how theirs lives have gone, and would she chose a different path if given the choice. This really got me thinking and my response to her was about goal setting.
When I was in my late 30's, yes I know a bit late....but better late than never. I decided it was time that I really sat down and evaluated my life and set some goals for myself. I mean I had done so in the past but that was in my head. I had never really sat down and made of list of things I wanted to accomplish in my life. Like nursing, believe it or not I never really thought of myself being a nurse. I always thought it was a cool job. I think it had to do with all the Cherry Ame's books my sister use to read...Cherry Ame's Army nurse...Cherry Ame's Helps out....and then there was my neighbour who worked at the hospital just up the street from me....which who would have known that is where I too started my nursing career. Anyhow, my neighbour, gosh I remember her like it was yesterday. She would walk past our house in her very determined way...definitely a woman on a mission. She had that starched whiter than white nurses cap, the deep navy blue cape with red satin lining, the white dress and stocking and the military looking white nursing shoes. Oh she looked so impressive. I wanted to look like that. I became a nurse, but I never wore the hat and I know for certain I never looked like my neighbour or Florence for that matter. Now I mostly wear scrubs. But I digress.

Goals. So I was in my late 30's and one afternoon I was sitting at the kitchen table and with pen and paper I started to jotted things down. I broke it down into 2, 5 and 10 year goals. Things I wanted, things I wanted to do and achieve, personal growth and development stuff. I wrote it, I read it and re read it, folded it up and put it in my journal, where it is to this day. Funny thing is, I had forgotten about it until about 10 months ago. I went and pulled it out. Much to my surprise, I had accomplished many of the items on my list. Not sure how it happened but I did it. I have kept that list as there are still items that I want to achieve. But I think it is time to revisit it and update it. Isn't that what goal setting is all about?
What about you, have you ever sat down and made up a list of goals or even set goals? If you have, have you achieved them? Have you reevaluated your goals? If you set goals, how did you stick to your plan?
Happy Friday all!
Happy Friday all!
17 comments:
At what age do we become to "old" to set goals? I don't know what goals I would set.....I don't even have time to think about them I am so busy being a wife, mom and grandma....maybe I need to step back a bit! Thanks for the food for thought! Hugs
Hey my friend thanks for the link. This is the kind of thing that makes this all worth while. Sharing our lives with thousands of miles between us. Cool huh?
As far as goals I have a way to go. I have a few of my listed on my side bar. I need to revisit it and add a few things.
That's what we are doing at this very moment in my counselling course.
It sometimes hard to pick realistic goals. But we had to pick ones that e can re evaluate in a couple months and then talk about our progress so far in class. So walking on the moon is out for me.
You can check out my other counselling stuff if you click on that category on my sidebar (if you are interested)
I really enjoyed this post.
I'm not too good with long term goals...now those like go to Walmart Friday I can do...lol!!
:-D
How marvelous that you accomplished so many of your goals. Setting goals gives you something to work towards.
I should actually write mine down. Trouble is, I am content for the time being (complacent). I feel like I am in waiting mode. "Just get the kids through college and then we can.....". I am scared to take the first step in fulfilling my goals. Do I have time right now to get serious about working towards my dream? So many uncertainties! So there, Im lazy and Im a chicken! hehe. Besides 3 hrs on bloggin is not uncommon for me either. But I dont watch TV. I have learned so much about the world and the lives of other people can sometimes be inspiring to read about.
Loved your Beach pics and video. Can you tell us where they are taken more exactly?
Congratulations on achieving most of your goals! I set some a long time ago but was not able to achieve them due to circumstances.
I have recently gotten to a place in my life where I have started setting goals again and meeting them. It's a wonderful feeling.
And Janet does take the most beautiful pictures doesn't she!
Have a great weekend!
I had goals. Then Bush happened to the economy and my job went poof. My goals are simple. I'd like to find the right woman before I die. I'd like to keep a roof over my head and food on my plate. I'd like to see the government of the US represent the people.
And I'd like to munch out here on RN's delicacies without getting chased with a burning twizzler. ;-)
We just wanted to stop by and thank you for visiting our blog. You have great photos we hope to take time to look more at our blog this weekend. See you saturday for photo hunters:)
I know what you mean about time getting away from you when you start reading other blogs...no wonder my eyes are sore and my butt is numb most of the time! lol I've never actually written down goals I would like to achieve...when I was agoraphobic I was setting goals for myself and now years later I'm amazed at how much I've accomplished since then:-)
Mary Anne, that's wonderful that you set goals and realized them. I had only one major goal in my life and that was, as a single mother, to make sure that my daughter received a good education. When she got her Master's degree, all the rest was just gravy for me. Now my goals are basically to put one foot in front of the other each day (ha!)
Josie
Goals - I stopped setting them because I sabotaged myself by setting them way too high! I need to start again. I could write a book about it because I know the steps. Like set a goal for 5# weight loss, not 50 and work from there, etc. But I just need a goal to get to the grocery store at this point!!!
(BTW: Please tell me I didn't correct your spelling! I would never forgive myself for that!!! You mentioned something about that and I honestly can't remember doing it. Please forgive me if I did!!! That's just rude...)
Thanks all for your comments. Goals are important to me...it's kinda like that to do list. When I worked in an office before I left for the day I always had my to do list written for the next day. I often I didnt' get through my to do list, but is was a good feeling crossing something off the list. The is sometimes how I could message my accomplishments or feel like I was doing something.
I don't know about most of you, but there are days when I feel I am going around in circles and at the end of it all I wonder what I did. So by keeping lists or goals I something to strive for and something tangible to say that I achieved or still needed to do. But then that just me and how I work.
I was reading your Photo Hunt post and the top of this post about you spent three hours reading blogs after working post night shift sounded so familiar to me as I did the same thing myself! It wasn't a night shift but it was a 16-hour double shift and next thing I knew it was 3:00 in the morning and all I had been doing was reading blogs! Talk about time flying!
Very nice blog you have here, I hope to be back!
Many times over the years I've been in situations when I have been asked what are my goals in life. That is a question which always makes my mind go blank. I then start to worry about why other people have goals and I don't. The mere mention of the word always made me feel stressed. Looking back I don't seem to have any regrets so I must have achieved all those unspoken "goals".
Regards
jmb
I have always been too mental to make goals as I never had enough hope or belief that I could make them happen. So much good has been happening in my life lately though and I have begun confidently setting goals at age 50.
I read recently that those with goals in writing met them with far more regularity than those who only thought or verbalized them.
Great site! It is never to late to start on goals.
Amanda
http://thetimemastery.com
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