I have completed yet another week of the rehab program for my shoulder, as I have said in previous posts what doesn't kill you surely must cure you....that's certainly how I feel about this program.
I did a work site assessments with one of the kinesiologist's from the program and then we met with my employer and had a meeting to discuss my return to work. I am looking foward to getting back to work and some normalcy to my life...if you can call shift work being normal.
I am feeling stronger and healthier, all very good signs.
It was my mother in laws birthday the other week and we all went out for dinner....hubbies sister who has been down in California for the past 6 months was there so it was an extra special dinner. I know mother in law was very pleased and happy to have her daughter there.
I gather most of you have noticed that I have not been posting regularly. I thought it was that I was in a slump...but I think it is more than that. I will try to expand on what I mean.
My brother and wife are in Wales on a teacher exchange for a year. In this my brother chose to reignite his blog. He first started out sharing his travels and adventures...and then started to mix in he thoughts on the healing process from losing two of his children. He is an extremely powerful writer. Something I never knew. I am in awe of his writing, his emotions, his command of the English language. I am amazed at what he is able to share...and the way in which he does it. He has this innate ability to draw the reader into his writings, you his feel the pain, it's like you are experiencing life along with him. His Christmas in Ireland, his time in Prague..and his recent travels to Egypt which took him scuba diving in the Nile I think you would really enjoy reading a few of his adventures and journey through dealing with grief...if so you can find him at John's Blog I am sure you won't be disappointed.
So what does this have to do with my frequency of posts? Everything, in reading his posts I realized that my posts lacked substance. I had nothing to say and have often lived by the adage that just don't post for the sake of posting...post when you have something you want or feel you need to share...and as it has been of late I felt I haven't had anything terribly note worthy and as a result I felt that my writing skills would not have the luster and finesse to be post worthy.
I started this post last week, and in reviewing what I wrote I am glad I didn't post it then.
I still feel as I did last week with regards to posting, but after reflection I realized that I will never be able to write like my brother I am me and he is who he is...that is what makes each of us unique and special. So I continue to post.
I start my return to work this week. The pain in my shoulder has not fully receded but it is considerably better, it is my left shoulder I worry about. It really flared up last week, I think I have resolved myself to the fact that is just how it is going to be.
Life has been busy and full, lots to chat about....but I will save that for another day along with photos. Thanks to those of you who sent me emails your thoughtfulness brightened my day!
13 comments:
I hope your shoulder heals up soon. Life gets busy, post when you have the time and feel like it. We'll be here for you.
Your posts draw me into your part of the world and into the areas of your life. They make me feel like a dear and trusted friend who you allow to share in that life. I don't think you need to be a published author in order to have your posts worthy of posting.........I like the way you write and I like being a small part of your life. Please keep up the posts and the photos of your neck of the woods! Hugs, my dear,dear friend!!!!
I am so glad you are feeling stronger and I hope that your return to work will go well.
I always like to read your posts. Part of what I like about blogging is everyone has a different style and shares at a different level. I feel like I get to know you and your corner of the world through this blog and that speaks to me.
I am so glad you are back. Your posts always inspire me. I understand totally what you mean about posting. I so often feel that I am not eloquent enough to be doimg doing this at all after reading other blogs. However my grandaughter told me one day "It's always about the content of posting and not how good or bad it is done" You do A great job and I love to read you. I too have cut back, posting just once a week. Take care and good luck going back to work. I know they will be welcoming you with open arms.
Never feel pressure to blog...you blog when the urge arises.
never try to be like someone else either...
we LOVE your posts...for the personal stuff and for your thoughts on life,the universe and everything
The ability to write is obviously a family trait. I have not yet read anything of your brother's but I have read you blog and it's good, very good. You don't have to write a novel for people to enjoy your writing you know honey. I'm so glad you are back and I look forward to reading whatever you write m'dear. x
So glad to hear your shoulder is feeling better. It's nice to see a post from you again.
I'll check out your brother's blog when I have a bit more free time.
hugs
I am happy to hear that you are headed back to work this week.
Your posts do not lack substance!
"If you compare yourself with others you will become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself."
Not that you are vain or bitter. Just saying...
I definitely have to agree with everyone else here about your posts. Don't ever compare your posts with another's because you aren't writing from the same viewpoint, for openers nor the same style and various and assorted other things as well. Your writing -as someone above said -has an inviting feel to it -"Come in, have some coffee and let's visit" type camaraderie. Makes one feel very comfortable hearing about your day-to-day activities. Sure, sometimes what happens to us all each day is mundane to us, but to others, it can be a delightful peek into yet another world. Thanks for opening your door to your home and family to us.
I'll add my voice to the choir.
I enoy your posts - they are real and interesting. often I learn something. you make me smile. your struggle with the shoulder problems makes me feel stronger about my chronic back pain. your stories of the people you meet while volunteering are beautiful and inspiring.
shall I go on ... :)
every voice counts
Thank you all of your kind words of support...and you are right....I should not compare myself....I try not to...sometimes it's just hard....you all have encouraged me to continue....thank you so very much...hugs to you all!!!
I'm glad to see you posting again, I hope you continue-I always enjoy reading about what's been going on.
Good luck on your return to work. Hopefully the transition back will be smooth.
How's your daughter doing? I hope she's doing okay.
Hey Sis,
I know how you feel (kinda) about wanting what you write to be blog-worthy. After I won a 'post-of-the-week' thingy I thought "Oh shit, what do I do for an encore?" and didn't post for two weeks. Took me that long to get over myself.
I have to echo what your other readers are saying about style and taste; it's simply subjective and I love coming here to find out what's going on in your life. You entertain, inform, share and include and I was disappointed to drop in a few times and find you hadn't written. It was like tuning into your fav tv show and it was a rerun...
Thanks for your kind words on my very public therapy. Your comments and support are en courage ing and help me to continue to find the courage to look closely at the tough stuff we'd rather wasn't there.
Keep writing. Love you,
John
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