Sky Watch Friday

Sunset over Hornby Island, British Columbia
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Trust....

~As the Captain puts his trust into the navigational guides, so must I trust my heart.~
~ Mary Anne Cumming~

Trust ~ 1 a : assured reliance on the character, ability, strength, or truth of someone or something b : one in which confidence is placed(Merriam-Webster).

When I have trust in a person I think Merriam-Webster describes it best. The assured reliance on the character and one in which confidence is placed speaks volumes to me.

When it comes to our children I think trust comes naturally as does unconditional love. Others I believe have to earn that trust. When our children do something to break that trust we try and teach them the importance of trust and why it shouldn't be broken. I always told my girls that once you have lost someones trust it is a very hard thing to get back, that is if you can get it back at all.

As I said trust for our children it natural and for others must be earned. This poses a question, why then for those who want to earn your trust do they so easily throw it away? How many times does it take for someone to lose your trust? Is there a limit? Or is it a one time thing? Does it depend on what it is they have done to lose your trust?

This could of course vary depending on whether the person who has broken your trust is someone in your professional life or personal life, or maybe it doesn't matter. Case in point, if you worked in an environment where there had to be a certain amount of trust in order for the situation to work and the person broke that trust, would you give them a second chance? OR is that trust at all and really a contractual situation?

When it comes to our personal lives, I believe we tend to push the boundaries of trust. We give that person more chances than we would give anyone else or do we? I know I do. I struggle with this. I have trusted people in my personal life and they have let me down on many occassions, but for some reason I give them another chance many chances in fact. I can always reason my way around why I should give them another chance, but am I doing myself and them a disservice? I don't know. I just know that once trust is lost it's hard to get back and can be so damaging to a relationship.

I like this qoute by Frank Crane

~ You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough. ~

I think that sums it up for me what about you?

Another Insurance rant....

It seems interesting that I write this post on the heals of the American Health care reform bill. Almost a year ago I made a post about insurance and titled it "Insurance a False Sense of Security". I talked about all kinds of insurance and how in some cases the policies aren't worth the paper they are written on.

These past few weeks hubby and I have been on road trips. Those road trips have taken us off road. I recognize that if I choose to take my vehicle off road I should be willing to suffer the consequences should anything happen to my vehicle. Thank goodness nothing happened, well not until we got back onto the highway. I was travelling in the outside lane and a vehicle behind a dump truck when it kicked up stones which of course hit my windshield and caused it to crack. Dang!!!!

I pay higher insurance premiums to lower my deductible. Here is my beef...deductible. Why on earth should we have to pay deductible in the first place. I already pay my insurance premiums, but if I want to make a claim I have to pay the deductible. That just doesn't seem right to me. What's the point of getting insurance if you still have to pay in the end? It's not right....and I don't know why there is no public outcry. To me this is a shear rip off by the insurance companies. These companies are making record profits.

- Allstate insurance in January 2009 reported consolidated revenues were $6.6 billion in the fourth quarter of 2008 and $29.4 billion for the 2008 year
- Geico reports a $649 million underwriting profit for 2009

These are only two insurance companies but every company I researched showed profits....multi-million dollar profits.

I was astounded when I read about all the tactics these companies use to either not pay a claim, delay a claim, or pay out as little as possible.

Now I recognize this is their business, but I pay premiums and I expect what they say they will cover and not only that I don't believe I/we should have to pay a deductible to make a claim. That is criminal to me

I feel like Micheal Moore when he goes to the big corporations demanding his money back, or that commercial where people are shouting out their windows "it's my money and I want it now", or better yet...why aren't we writing letters to the powers that be telling them how in just this is and demanding that deductibles become a thing of the past.

Well that is my rant for today. I don't know if I will get my windshield fix...not yet anyhow. I just hate the thought of paying the deductible to get it fixed.

Saturday Scavenger Photo Hunt

This week's theme is "Three". Well the first thing that came to my mind was my three daughters....but I thought I should try and be a bit more creative than that....next I thought about birds.....here is a picture of three eagles two are juvenile and the other is a bald eagle. YOu can click on the picture to get a better look.



My youngest daughter going after the ball during a field hockey game while her team mate wearing the number "three" gaurds the ball from the other player."Three" generations. My niece(mom), grandma(her mom) Great grandma(her great grandma)
and my figgity great nephew.

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Going on a Road Trip

Morning all...well the sun is out and it's a glorious day, hubby, eldest daughter and I are going a"Road Trip". See you in a couple of days and I'll share with you some of our adventures.

Cheers and have a wonderful day !

Happy St. Patrick's Day!

Well what kind of Irish Lass would I be if I didn't wish all my friends a Happy St. Paddy's Day!

Today we will see people of all walks of life toasting each other, singing Irish ballads and wearing green. I've always wondered where these Irish folks are the rest of the year! Well I shouldn't say much as I am only half Irish on me mum's side. Oh the parties we would have.

A couple of years ago I had planned a St. Paddy's Day party. My youngest daughter and I made this shamrock cake. Sad thing was my niece and her family were visiting, and her youngest son took ill and we spent the day in the ER so the party had to be cancelled. The cake never got eaten. I froze it and had intentions of having family over but it all fell through. Ah the luck of the Irish....NOT!

Speaking of luck, if it was a good sign, yesterday we had a terrible wind storm, winds up to 100km/hr, needless to say the power went out. At one point hubby was standing on the porch when he called me out to see something. Waht should I behold but the most beautiful rainbow....I mean it was the complete arch just to the side of our house. I have seen many rainbows in my time but never one as big and complete as that....yes I take that as a very good sign.

So to all my friends I wish you all good things on this St. Patrick's Day!

May you have no frost on your Spuds,

No worms on your cabbage.

May your goat give plenty of milk.

If you inherit a donkey, may she be in foal.

Don't walk in front of me I may not follow.

Don't walk behind me I may not lead.

Walk beside me And just be my friend.

Our trip North Part I

I've been on holidays for a week now. My first week was spent doing odd chores around the house. We had our roof redone and hence we needed to be home. It was great to get it done, I don't know about you but I really don't' like having strangers working on my home. I mean these men didn't give me reason for concern about theft or anything, it's just that I like my space. One of the issues for us is that living in the country and out of sight, we don't have window coverings on any windows....none, zippo. So I had to be organized in the mornings I had to be up showered and dressed before the roofers arrived at 0800. It was all worth it in the end. We have our new roof and I am a very happy camper.

Saturday arrived and we were up and at it early as that tends to be our norm these days. I don't think I had my first latte, when hubby said the infamous words "Road Trip". With that I rushed about tidying up morning dishes making the bed and then packing clothes. Not knowing where we were going and or for how long you can imagine the difficulties in packing. Well for me anyways that can be a challenge, as for my hubby I pack for him. Not that he can't pack....ah I won't even go there. Anyhow, it was mid morning by the time we had things in the truck Bert and included, all I knew was that we were heading north. Oops I tell a lie....hubby had called the Mayor of a little town called Port Alice to find out about accommodations and the likes. Figures, if my hubby is going to ask a question he goes straight to the head person to get the answers. So yes back to the truck and off we went.

Vancouver Island from one end to the other is approximately 600km and 35km wide. We live mid Island. To travel from our home to the most northern part of the Island which is Cape Scott would take us about 4 hours. Our destination was Port Alice, which is about 3 1/2 hours from our home. So here are some photos of our trip.....well Part l. As always you can click on the photos to get a larger shot.

As we decided to take Bert with us on this trip rest stops were frequent. Our first stop was a place called Denman Island rest stop.

To the left of that tall tree is Bayne Sound, there is great fishing, crabbing, oyster fishing and prawns. So if seafood is your thing that is a great place.

Another hour or so down the road or should I say up the road is a city ......yes a city called Campbell River. Campbell River boasts to be the Salmon Capital of the world....but then I have heard that of other areas on the Island, but suffice to say fishing on the Island is absolutely the best to be had. This shot was taken believe it or not from a pulp mill site, I was looking from the shore toward the casino, when a heron just so happen to perch himself on the pilon.

A little further up the road we came to a place as the sign says Seymour Narrows, the sign says it all, except the next photo really doesn't give you a good feel of what the tides would have been like.

You can see the tug boat pulling log booms through the Narrows a very tricky task and a job only for the very seasoned sailors. In this same area there is a place out in the narrows called "Ripple Rock". It was the largest man made "Non Nuclear" explosion. It was performed in order to deepen the Narrows for larger ships to travel. Now days large cruise ships use this passage on their way to Alaska.
This is actually a amazing feet. If you want to see some live footage of the blast you can go to YouTube and type is Ripple Rock Explosion and you will see actual footage of the blast. Simply amazing for the time 1958.

The next few shots are just scenic photos of the mountains and road we travelled making our way north. One of our most favourite shots was that of the elk I spotted on the edge of the road. You see signs of Elk on the road all over the island but my hubby who has lived on the island since 1996 his never seen any. So to spot these big guys was a real treat. When I saw them the funny thing was I yelled "moose". Now I know they aren't moose but that was the first thing that came to mind in order to capture my hubby's attention. His reaction time was awesome and was able to make a turn off and we drove up the road and I was able to capture this photo.

We finally make it to the sign telling us which way to go......


Well as you can see we make the left turn and off to Port Alice we go. I will leave you with this and post Part II entitled "On the Road to Port Alice".

Until then, happy trails to you!

Saturday Scavenger Photo Hunt

This weeks theme is "Spiral"
I had to think long and hard about this one. Then it dawned on me. Last spring I made a wreath for my door. I used a grape vien wreath to start. See how the viens spiral aroud to make a circle.

This was the finished product

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And the weatherman says......

It's March 12, 2010. We haven't had snow all winter. Well at least not where I live. We have had temperatures as high as 16 Celsius. People have been walking around in shorts. The cherry blossoms are in bloom, the tulips and crocuses are rearing their heads, the garden shops are encouraging us to plant our late spring early summer bulbs. So wasn't I surprised when I came downstairs this morning to see snow falling. Yes snow!

I know my friends in the eastern part of the country are still experiencing the evil white stuff, but this is the first snowfall we have had in my area this year! Yes there has been snow on the mountains and skiing has been fantastic at our local mountain, it has over 500cm of snow!! Never understood why they didn't hold some of the Olympic events on that mountain....ah I digress.

So with camera in hand I went onto the back porch and started to take some shots of the white stuff...when what should I come upon but dear ol Robin Red Breast. He looked just as confused as I am feeling about this white stuff.I was suppose to go for my run this morning but even as I type this the snow is falling harder and the ground is getting whiter....I think I will have to just settle for going on my stepper. Happy Weekend to you all!

Courage.....

"What I am actually saying is that we each need to let our intuition guide us, and then be willing to follow that guidance directly and fearlessly."

~Shakti Gawain~

Have you ever been in a situation where you found yourself going against the norm, when you know it would be far easier for you to just go along with the crowd but your inner voice just wouldn't let you?

I have found myself in that position many times in my life and currently I am faced with a situation where I just can't follow the crowd. The crowd in this particular situation is my family.

Without going into detail let me just say that my family have been approached to honour a certain member. As a family we have discussed how we would like to proceed. I have voiced some concerns which have met with the ire of all the other family members involved. Try as I might I have been unsuccessful in presenting my position in such a way that they could at least understand my point. For clarity let me just say this is not a life threatening situation it's a matter of process. I feel so strongly about this, my intuition tells me I am doing the right thing. So why then do I feel like I should just cave in and just go with the flow. Why is doing what you believe to be right so difficult to do?

I understand my families position, but I believe their process is wrong. If I continue my stance I end up alienating myself and I struggle with this. Anne Wilson Schaef says " My intuition connects me with the voice I need to hear". I think she is right. I need to listen to my inner voice.

It's tough flying solo, but it can be so rewarding in the end.

Saturday Scavenger Photo Hunt

This week's theme is "Foreign"


This is a Clark's Nutcracker. My hubby spotted this bird at the front of our house in December. This bird is forgein to this area, so to be able to catch it on film was a real treat!

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Something about me.....

Some time back I was tagged for this meme. I started it but for some reason never got around to posting it. It’s one of those memes that asks you to describe yourself in one word…..it’s not easy but here are my answers……

1. Where is your cellphone? In my knapsack

2. Your significant other? Handsome

3. Your hair? Short

4.Your mother? Amazing
5. Your father? Dapper
6. Your favorite thing? Adventure
7. Your dream last night? Didn't
8. Your favorite drink? Water
9. Your dream/goal? Contentment
10. The room your in? Office
11. Your hobby? Lots
12. Your fear? Fear
13. Where do you want to be in six years? Alive
14. What your not? Cruel
15. Muffins? Sure
16. One of your wish list items? Happiness
17. Where you grew up? Burnaby
18. The last thing you did? Drive
19. What are you wearing? PJ's
20. Favorite gadget? Zester
21. Your pets? Loveable
22. Your computer? HP
23. Your mood? Happy
24. Missing someone? Yes
25. Your car? Truck
26. Something your not wearing? Socks
27. Favorite store? Le Vi En Rose
28. Like someone? Many
29. Your favorite color? Red
30. When is the last time you laughed? Today

31. Last time you cried? Yesterday

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You decide......

Is there anything wrong with wanting to do better? Be stronger, to be able to speak your mind without fear of repercussions, to strive to achieve your physical best...to set goals? What if your goals are unrealistic should you still attempt to achieve them? Case in point....you've wanted the body not so much of a super model but one of those females you see in the ads, the woman with the long legs, the curvaceous body...the picture perfect smile. You strive your whole life to keep fit, to obtain that body...but at one point your boobs are to big or to small, your waist is to thick, your hips have seen better days and your tummy that you so want to be flat has this sort of ski hill thing going on, and yet you still strive to have what you believe to be a perfect body. Is that unrealistic? I'm thinking maybe it is.

I have never been content with my body....I have struggled my whole life with my weight and appearance..it was all about if you looked good then you were successful....successful with friends, with the male counterpart, and often job opportunities. I grew up in a family of 12 children I was the youngest of 6 girls...I had all my sisters to watch go through life's challenges. My sister closest to me seemed to always coast through life, she was prettier, smarter and have the gift of the gab. She always had boyfriends, the nice clothes..she got almost any job she applied for, she is extremely well spoke and has a photographic memory and absorbs things like a sponge and that has done her well in her life. She is one of those people who has really gone through life with a silver spoon in her mouth, and I strive to achieve that level of success.

When I think about it, I guess it's about how do we measure success? What is success for me maybe something completely different for another. Seeing as this is about me one area that I feel I was never successful at was my appearance....I wanted to be that girl that boys wanted to date, I don't know why it was so important to me...but for some reason it was. Today, I still struggle with the whole appearance and self esteem issues, and I think that is what it is about...self esteem....I measure self esteem with how I physically appear...if I look good then my self esteem is higher.....I have had periods in my life where I was told I was attractive..and was complimented on my looks. Today I don't feel that way at all. I have spent the last 5 weeks doing some very intense exercise program and I really haven't noticed any changes....I am back to running regularly...minimum of 5km at a time....but that doesn't seem to be helping me lose or tone my legs, or my tummy and my arms which I use to think were well shaped look flabby. Nope I am not a happy camper.

I realize I am not in my 20's anymore and my body doesn't respond like it did back then....but sheesh...shouldn't I be seeing some results....I feel like I look so dull frumpy and boring.....

My husband loves me just the way I am. He sees me more than just the physical, he sees the person inside. I on the other hand have difficulties seeing that person.

I know I am not alone on this topic. I work primarily with women. I would say half of them are on diets, it's actually getting rather nauseating hearing about all the diet plans, amount of water we need to drink blah blah blah. I think most of them look great and I wish they would just enjoy themselves. Sure there's nothing wrong with eating healthy and exercise that is important, but enjoying life is important as well. We do need to treat ourselves every once in awhile.

So where is the balance....I'm still looking.....what about you?

I Believe

So the 2010 Olympics are over. What a time, what an amazing experience for Canada and for Vancouver what a party! I have never experienced so much Canadian pride as I did during these Olympics.

"I Believe" was one of the Canadian Olympic motto's/logo. I certainly believe in how the positive emotions can be infectious. Hubby and I were able to make it to the mainland for a couple of days. We didn't have tickets to any of the events, but what we saw was amazing. I think we took over 600 photos. We were in awe of the crowds and how happy everyone was. The police were friendly, people were polite and helpful, the thousand of volunteers my sister, my girlfriend, and my brother just to name a few, all volunteered to help out at the games. They tell me it was an experience they will never forget.

Some of the international media seem to take any opportunity it could to lamb base Vancouver and it's inaction in certain events. Case in point. I heard that British news was saying that Vancouver was having all these riots. Yes there was a few protests, and unfortunately a few rebel rosers broke some windows. But, I have to tell you, they were a small group, never once did I see a fight or anything that could even resemble a so called riot.

That's the Olympic Cauldron behind me. See all those people. Folks lined up for hours to get a shot of that thing.
Here's a little better shot of the Cauldron....see all the people....oh my goodness, and nope no riots here....
This is a photo of just some of the crowds working their way towards that Olympic Cauldron. It was something I will never forget again. The street vendors were selling and trading a variety of pins, and again, I never saw any thing close to rowdiness or riots.

Police officers from all over the country came to help out with the security of the Olympics. I took this photo as one of the officers was from my husband's hometown of Hamilton. I thought that was cool as well, that they wore their own uniforms, again it showed a united Canada working together to make this a enjoyable event for the world to enjoy! They "Believed" as well.

The Olympic Clock near Robson Square

This caught my interest, Samsung I gather was on of the Olympic sponsors but the critters on the side are the Olympic Mascots. I thought it was cool how they projected these images on the building.

Some very friendly and kind police officers taking care of this rowdy Olympic fan
Downtown Granville street wall to wall people and not a fight or riot in sight.

Yes I believe that a city the size of Vancouver can hold an international even such as the Olympics and welcome the world. I believe that it was a great success, I believe that this is a memory and experience that I will never forget.

I want to thank all of our international guests for behaving themselves and for making these Olympics so enjoyable for all.

Saturday Scavenger Photo Hunt

This week's theme is "Daily". What an interesting choice, what are somethings that I do daily, or see daily, or experience daily...hmmm let me see......

One of the things I see "daily" are birds at my feeders........

Another thing I do "Daily" is talk to my hubby about plans and every day stuff, he is my best friend and I get to be with him "Daily".

I get the"Daily" enjoyment of being around my favourite dog Bert

There are so many things I do on a "Daily" basis, but the most important thing of all, is that I get to be mom to my three wonderful daughters!

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Camera Critters.....

A few weeks back a couple of friends an I went snowshoeing up at Mt. Washington on Vancouver Island. It was a glorious day. Sun was shining, fresh snow on the ground. The local birds were in abundance and didn't seem to afraid of coming down to say hello......

We had some nuts which they seemed to really enjoy. These birds are called "Whiskey Jack's".

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